So Proposition 8 is back in the news as it's constitutionality is under judicial review. Yesterday I officiated at a funeral for a wonderful man who had a committed relationship with another man. The older adults in attendance were somewhat disturbed by the almost continuous outpouring of love that came from his friends in the gay community. They were eager and driven to get up and talk about their friend and his life, while the seniors sat passively and tried to keep their jaws off the floor. It was one of the few times I was negatively impressed with the culture of age. I think for gay and lesbian citizens to be fully accepted, they must have full rights. In order for their in group support system to be blended with the family of origin, there has to be routine, traditional events that are inclusive.